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If You Want Me Show It","bf_description":"\u0022\u0022\u003Ccenter\u003E\u0022\u0022![](https:\/\/media.istockphoto.com\/id\/1351700817\/photo\/who-knows-if-you-think-of-me-while-i-think-of-nature.jpg?s=612x612\u0026w=0\u0026k=20\u0026c=Ikqa2U9SOgyf2RO08FKjL_uX7XA1NIRsKCrwEpFBgQY=)\r\n[Find Online Love In UK](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/United-Kingdom-dating-service.html?page=14)\u00a0|\u00a0\u00a0[American Love Online](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/United-States-dating-service.html?page=14)\u00a0|\u00a0[True Love in Spain](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Spain-dating-service.html?page=14)\u00a0|\u00a0[Find Real Love in Canada](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Canada-dating-service.html?page=14)\u00a0|\u00a0[Australian Love And Dating](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Australia-dating-service.html?page=14)\u00a0|\u00a0[Meet Online Love In Germany](https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Germany-dating-service.html?page=14)\u0022\u0022\u003C\/center\u003E\u0022\u0022\r\n\r\nTwo of your hos and a bottle of rum to the first person to name the inspiration for that post title.\r\n\r\nI have a confession to make. I hate the book,\u00a0[_The Five Love Languages_](https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts\/dp\/080241270X). Not because its a bad book. It\u2019s actually a great book with lots of cute stories and suggestions that are totally common sense based. It\u2019s also written in a way that is very relate-able and not-condescending. It\u2019s like the anti\u00a0_Yeezus_. You know, if\u00a0_Yeezus_\u00a0was a book and not a frisbee\u2026wait, does anybody cop CDs anymore?\r\n\r\nProbably not.\r\n\r\nI digress.\r\n\r\nAh yes, I The Five Love Languages book. Why do I hate this book? Well, I hate it because it became the go-to relationship fixer upper book for anybody with any sort of issue in their relationship. Hell, I almost decided to write The Six Love Languages JUST to try to capitalize. But then I picked up a hitchhiker on the way to Florida and as I explained to him my plans he got extremely upset and began yelling, NOT SIX, FIVE! Well, needless to say that\u2019s the last time I pick up Martin Lawrence off the highway.\r\n\r\nBack to the book. Again.\r\n\r\nWhile this book offers very good solutions, it only works if one facet of your relationship is intact\u2026a willingness to try whatever it takes to work. If vulnerability and effort aren\u2019t present and accounted for in your relationship, and let\u2019s fact it, that and communication is where a lot of relationships falter, then the book for all of its glory is a one eyed one armed flying purple paperweight. Again, it\u2019s a good book that requires effort which, if it was present in the first place, you probably wouldn\u2019t need the book in the second place. Of course, some people need suggestions on how to give effort so perhaps its all worth it.\r\n\r\nBong bong.\r\n\r\nWhere am I going with this? Good question. So, two of the chapters of the book that I\u2019ve read plenty of times are Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation (the other three love languages are Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. The perv in you can achieve the last three with one good smang session.) All are aptly titled and pretty self explanatory.\r\n\r\nActs of Service is means of showing love (or receiving love) via doing things to show the other person that you care. Maybe you\u2019re not so good at expressing your love verbally, but you will mow the sh*t out of that lawn every morning if that\u2019s what she desires. Or you\u2019ll hook that Strawberry Gecko Lizard Sloth Lemonade up that he likes. And maybe you can\u2019t tell if he loves you unless he shows you via his actions. So he can say it all he wants but unless you need him to catch a bullet with his teeth to save your life so that you know that it\u2019s real. Maybe she won\u2019t, but then again maybe she will. You get the drift.\r\n\r\nOn the other side is Words of Affirmation. Basically, you need (or somebody needs) to hear lots of compliments and\/or words of appreciation. My guess is that this works with men best. In the book it talks about the power of positive reinforcement. Dogs like that sh*t too. Positively reinforce me boo. Now, I\u2019m pretty sure that somebody saying \u201cI Love You\u201d isn\u2019t necessarily a word of affirmation, but I\u2019m gonna lump it in her to make my point, since, hell, those three words could probably implode the world and\/or take the world to new heights. They\u2019re almost as powerful as \u201cMy God can kick your God\u2019s ass.\u201d Power.\r\n\r\nThis was a really long way of getting to this question and wonderance. See, most women I know want all of those love languages. All the time. And all the time, they want the love languages. Jesus on the mainline swag. Tell him what you want. You show a woman you love her, then its likely you don\u2019t say it enough. If you say you love her all the time, its probably because you aren\u2019t showing her. I believe it was philosopher king Warren G who said it best, \u201cI want it all.\u201d\r\n\r\nTo be fair, I\u2019m guessing most men probably are somewhere in the middle. We only notice sh*t when things have gotten out of hand one way or another. We like it when you cook, and you stop that sh*t. Wholesale. Actually, its like when you piss of a woman, she quits everything at once. She ain\u2019t using her words, hands, mouth, credit card or anything. That\u2019s when us men start begging you to tell us that you still love us. Y\u2019all always do. Awwwwwwww\u2026.\r\n\r\nSo here\u2019s a question, if you could only have one: either your significant other showed you they loved but never said it, or always said it (and you know they meant it) but never really showed it\u2026what would you chose? And why?\r\n\r\nDo you need words or deeds?#BARS\r\n\r\nAnd you can\u2019t have both.\r\n\r\nWhat means the world to you? What COULDN\u2019T you live without in a relationship?","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-29","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-29","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"IfYouLoveMeSayItIfYouWantMeShowIt","date_creation_fiche":"2025-10-29 11:27:13","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-10-29 11:27:13","user":"66.249.74.6","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-29\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-29\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022IfYouLoveMeSayItIfYouWantMeShowIt\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-10-29 11:27:13\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-10-29 11:27:13\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/formation-percolab.com\/?IfYouLoveMeSayItIfYouWantMeShowIt"}}